Sorry all I have
not stopped a things as other have you believing. I have been doing repairs to
my property for the new cattle we have. I do have a life to carry on that takes
precedence over this blog. I am back and ready.
First proof that
I bought my profile picture because let’s face it being called a thief by someone
who is off her rockers needs to be shown. According to her everyone is who she
says they are so lets me prove her wrong. I know in this her actions are in
hope to gain whom I am. Sorry Hun sit an stew in it a little longer.
While off my
daughter was doing research for a University she wants to attend next year. She
was accepted already! Study Psychology was her choice so imagine my surprise when
she called me in to take a gander at a blog a few faculty follow. https://anupturnedsoul.wordpress.com/2013/12/26/answering-questions-about-narcissists/
Reading
through this blog I fell in love with the witty humor and realistic cause
behind this post.
“Narcissistic discard when it’s not
about them?”
“Narcissists use conversation as a
means of securing ‘Narcissistic Supply’. They need acknowledgement,
affirmation, confirmation of their existence and that they are who they are
pretending to be. You are there to support their magnificence. You’re the
applause of the audience after a performance. They also need a million other
things from you. There is no time for you and it has to be all about them. If
you talk about yourself or a subject which interests you but does not interest
them, they switch off. The only reason they will listen to you talk about
yourself is when they are seeking information about you to become you, they are
gathering information about how to steal your identity. So when you first meet
them they will focus all their attention on you and batter you with personal
questions aimed at finding out everything they want to know about how to become
you. Once they have what they want, you are no longer needed, and they discard
you because to keep you around might be dangerous to them, especially if they
are now pretending to be you. No one else can know that you exist or their game
might be discovered and their new mask will get ripped off.
If you’ve been in a relationship with
a Narcissist, you’ve felt the sting of sudden abandonment and rejection. They
leave when they please, and they return when and if they feel like it.
Yo-yo-ing. They do not know who they are, sure they have many versions and
ideas about who they are, and never shut up about who they are and what they do
(without ever doing anything they say they do), but none of them are real. If
they could, they would put their missing core self on a milk carton, but if you
found it they’d reject that too. They tend to discard those who get closest to
their real identity. They are afraid of that. All their behavior is driven by
fear. If you saw the face behind the mask, even if you were not afraid of it,
and they saw you seeing it, they are afraid of it and now of you… so they get
away.
Discarding people is a defense
mechanism for them.”
XOXO Book
Inferno
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