I have not Fizzled nor Popped!

Sorry all I have not stopped a things as other have you believing. I have been doing repairs to my property for the new cattle we have. I do have a life to carry on that takes precedence over this blog. I am back and ready.

First proof that I bought my profile picture because let’s face it being called a thief by someone who is off her rockers needs to be shown. According to her everyone is who she says they are so lets me prove her wrong. I know in this her actions are in hope to gain whom I am. Sorry Hun sit an stew in it a little longer.

 

 

While off my daughter was doing research for a University she wants to attend next year. She was accepted already! Study Psychology was her choice so imagine my surprise when she called me in to take a gander at a blog a few faculty follow. https://anupturnedsoul.wordpress.com/2013/12/26/answering-questions-about-narcissists/

Reading through this blog I fell in love with the witty humor and realistic cause behind this post.

 

“Narcissistic discard when it’s not about them?”

 

“Narcissists use conversation as a means of securing ‘Narcissistic Supply’. They need acknowledgement, affirmation, confirmation of their existence and that they are who they are pretending to be. You are there to support their magnificence. You’re the applause of the audience after a performance. They also need a million other things from you. There is no time for you and it has to be all about them. If you talk about yourself or a subject which interests you but does not interest them, they switch off. The only reason they will listen to you talk about yourself is when they are seeking information about you to become you, they are gathering information about how to steal your identity. So when you first meet them they will focus all their attention on you and batter you with personal questions aimed at finding out everything they want to know about how to become you. Once they have what they want, you are no longer needed, and they discard you because to keep you around might be dangerous to them, especially if they are now pretending to be you. No one else can know that you exist or their game might be discovered and their new mask will get ripped off.

 

If you’ve been in a relationship with a Narcissist, you’ve felt the sting of sudden abandonment and rejection. They leave when they please, and they return when and if they feel like it. Yo-yo-ing. They do not know who they are, sure they have many versions and ideas about who they are, and never shut up about who they are and what they do (without ever doing anything they say they do), but none of them are real. If they could, they would put their missing core self on a milk carton, but if you found it they’d reject that too. They tend to discard those who get closest to their real identity. They are afraid of that. All their behavior is driven by fear. If you saw the face behind the mask, even if you were not afraid of it, and they saw you seeing it, they are afraid of it and now of you… so they get away.

 

Discarding people is a defense mechanism for them.”

 I see this in steady supply on a blog. Naming that blog will not do at this time. See them giving something a name gives it power I think it just fuels the bullshit they dish out. Like me being gone dealing with adult life providing for my children. Don’t take that time where they needed it to blog, make notifications to alert me to each new post or comment. No I don’t even deal with FB or Twitter. I tune them out delving into the deep pit that is my life as a single mom running a ranch/farm. My alt sits steady waiting for me when I return from a busy day. So when I read about FB alts that stalk I do “SMH”!  Why is it that you do that, have an alt due to being blocked then use it in blind faith to stalk the very same person you claim is stalking you.  Seriously do you not get that you are just as bad as them. No excuses you stalk they stalk so it is the same just keeping an eyes out for the others. If you don’t like that then leave them alone, block them, restricted them, or just delete your account.

 

This is not my last post I just have decided to take it to a new level.  One were adults will see that  two wrongs don’t makes rights and rights/apologies/ taking it back can hardly ever make it better after the damage is done. What is the true definition of “Repentance”?

 

 

XOXO Book Inferno